Getting back in the saddle

What happens if when it comes to sex you and your partner are on different pages?

How do you know what the expectations are if you don’t talk about it?

If you are both in the boat but only one of you is rowing, is it time to have a chat?

What are you actively doing to achieve a better Sexual relationship? I know this chat isn’t an easy one to have, especially because it can come across like there is blame somewhere.

lt doesn’t have to be awkward or turn into a blame game — I want this and your not doing that scenario,

Before your start the conversation, ask yourself what would be the best outcome for this chat. Don‘t bring up the length of time it’s been since you last had sex or the things that lacked during, focus on want you would like to happen for you both moving forward , ask how you could please your partner and if there is anything they would like you to do.

Its time to bring your A game attention and apply first date dating enthusiasm.

If it’s been so long and your intimacy is none existent, then you are starting pretty much from scratch, which means start dating each other again re-ignite the sparks do some fun dates get the adrenaline going. That doesn’t mean one date and your sex life will be on fire again that means consistency, date, have fun, being back the laughs no excuses make it work!! Both of you..!!

Maybe you don‘t need to have the chat maybe you need more ideas in initiating better sex.

Signature Sensuality Massages are so seductive and could easily lead to sex if you so desired but are ultimately to pleasure your partner.

When you are pleasuring your partner that could be pleasure in itself.

I can go into this in much more detail for each individual couple. even help you have that chat.

What is important in one relationship is totally unique for another.